How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 16.06.2025 14:37

Losing 20kg is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Have you ever regretted not hitting on a older women?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Why did my ex move on so quickly?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
What methods do private investigators use to investigate someone in real life?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Hangs out with loser friends.
What I need from you?
What is your favourite true story to tell at a party?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
That's it for today.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Why are American university students fine with sharing a room?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What is the difference between anxiety and depressive neurosis?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Procrastinates a lot.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Ask yourself:
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).