How does one succeed in life?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

I’m a man. Why do I always fantasize about men’s cock? I don’t want a relationship with the man, I just want to suck his cock.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Have you ever regretted not hitting on a older women?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Why did my ex move on so quickly?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

What methods do private investigators use to investigate someone in real life?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What I need from you?

What is your favourite true story to tell at a party?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

That's it for today.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Why are American university students fine with sharing a room?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What is the difference between anxiety and depressive neurosis?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why do people have trouble accepting the very true fact that "The Blue Marble" photo of Earth is a composite and therefore (just like every other subsequent "picture" of Earth NASA has ever shown us) not a real photo but computer generated?

Procrastinates a lot.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Does a narcissist ever get their comeuppance/karma for the vile things they've done? Such as cheating, smear campaign, etc.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Ask yourself:

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).